The 3 types of people in your life
The leaves, the branches and the trees
First, let’s talk about the Leaves. These people come into your life for just a moment—a season. They are bright, vibrant, and full of life when they arrive, bringing color and excitement to your world. But remember, just like the leaves on a tree, they are temporary. They take what they need—your energy, your kindness, maybe even a bit of your heart—and when the winds change or the weather shifts, they drift away. They’re not meant to stay. And you must understand, this isn’t a bad thing. Leaves are not evil or cruel; they are simply what they are: temporary. They come, and they go, and they leave behind memories, some good, some not so much. But you mustn’t hold on to them when it’s their time to leave. Let them go with the breeze, and remember them for the brief joy they brought.
Then, there are the Branches. Now, these folks are a bit different. They’re stronger, more substantial. When you first meet them, you think, “Ah, here is someone I can lean on.” And for a while, you’re right. They’re there for you, offering support, sharing good times, and standing by you through a few storms. But you have to be careful with branches. They seem sturdy, but if you lean too hard, put too much weight on them, they can snap. It’s not because they want to; it’s just that they aren’t made to carry the weight of everything. They might stick around for a few seasons, maybe even a few years. But eventually, the strain becomes too much, and they, too, will break away. You see, branches are conditional friends—they’re there when things are good or even moderately challenging. But when life gets truly tough, they might not be able to hold on. Appreciate them for what they are, but don’t mistake them for something they’re not.
And finally, the Roots. Oh, the roots. If you’re lucky, you’ll find a few of these in your lifetime. Roots are the ones who truly matter. They aren’t flashy, they don’t need to be seen, and they aren’t around just for the good times. No, roots are there through it all. The bitter winters, the scorching summers—they hold firm. They don’t do it for praise or recognition. They do it because they love you, plain and simple. They are the ones who will stand by you, even when the world seems to be crumbling around you. They are the steady, unyielding support beneath your feet, nourishing you, giving you strength, and keeping you grounded. Roots are rare and precious. When you find them, cherish them. Don’t take them for granted, because they are the foundation upon which your life is built.
As I pen my thoughts this day, I encourage you to look at the people in your life and see them for what they are. Celebrate the leaves, respect the branches, but hold on tight to your roots. As you journey through your life, you would probably see very clearly that the roots are what truly make life beautiful. They are a source of strength, joy, and peace. I hope you find your roots, and when you do, never let them go.
